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Joy, to the World

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Joy, to the World

A young Dumplin’ meets Melissa in this joyful and energetic middle grade novel about a twelve-year-old girl living her life to the fullest, celebrating her love for sports and fighting for her right to cheer. 

Joy, a twelve-year-old trans girl, just moved to Texas with her mother and older brother. Her family has accepted Joy as the girl she is early in her transition, with little fuss, leaving Joy to explore her love of sports, competition, teamwork, school spirit, and worship. 

But when she is told she’s off the cheerleading team, Joy wants to fight for her right to cheer. As her battle with the school board picks up momentum, Joy attracts support from kids all around the country . . . she even gets the attention of her hero, trans activist Kai Shappley. 

Inspired by Kai’s own life, Joy, to the World is a timely story of living life to the fullest, celebrating and centering trans joy, courage, and resilience. 

On Sale: May 9, 2023 Now: $15.99
Available in Hardcover & E-Book
Digital Audio, MP3

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Editor’s note: Amid a charged national conversation about transgender rights, the question of how best to love, support, and care for trans-identifying young Americans has become a source of fervent debate. In recent months, as a wave of legislation and orders has emerged from conservative statehouses designed to block gender-­affirming medical treatment for young people, Vogue sent the photographer Ethan James Green and writer Devan Díaz to Texas to meet a girl already very much in the public eye. The following text, images, and video documentary are the result. Every young person’s story is different, and Vogue urges readers and parents to consult resources as varied as the Human Rights Campaign, the American Medical Association, PFLAG, Gender Spectrum, the Trevor Project, and others when seeking support and care. Read full Post

Anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, can support the LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Questioning) community. But being an ally of this population takes action. Allies work to stay informed on current LGBT issues and events. They speak up for what’s right and they support equality by fighting for policies that protect LGBTQ individuals from discrimination. Allies are important and welcomed supporters of the LGBTQ movement, as they have one of the most powerful, influential voices. They help create a platform for activism to fight homophobia and transphobia, and they personally advocate for equal treatment for all people, regardless of their sexual orientation. Read full Post

Parenting isn't always easy — especially if your child is lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning (LGBTQ). In many ways no different from their peers, LGBTQ youth face some unique challenges that parents often feel unprepared to tackle. To help, Johns Hopkins pediatrician and adolescent medicine specialist Errol Fields shares steps you can take to keep your child happy and healthy. Let them know they are loved. For many LGBTQ youth, breaking the news to mom and dad is the scariest part of coming out. “Time and time again, we hear the same thing from patients: ‘Once my parents are behind me, I can handle anything else the world throws at me,’” Dr. Fields explains. “You’re their anchor, and your acceptance is key. In fact, research shows that LGBTQ adolescents who are supported by their families grow up to be happier and healthier adults.” Read full Post

An introductory educational resource that covers topics and best practices on how to support transgender and nonbinary young people. Welcome! The first step to becoming an ally to transgender and nonbinary people is to learn more; thank you for taking that step with us! It can be tough for transgender and nonbinary people to bear the burden of educating others about their lived experiences. Our Guide to Being an Ally to Transgender and Nonbinary Young People is an introductory educational resource that covers a wide range of topics and best practices on how to support transgender and nonbinary people. We’re here to help begin your education on the basics of gender identity and expression. You’ll be able to better support the trans and nonbinary folks in your life and help to create a safer, kinder, more accepting world. Read full Post

In our ever-evolving society, understanding LGBTQ+ terminology and identities is important for promoting an inclusive and respectful environment. Whether you are a part of an LGBTQ+ community, an ally, or simply looking to learn how to be a supportive friend or family member, educating yourself and others is essential. This comprehensive guide provides ten detailed tips to help you navigate and understand the vast spectrum of this topic. As a result, you’ll be well-equipped to create a welcoming space for all. 1. Start with the Basics: Understanding the basics is the first step in learning about LGBTQ+ terminology and identities. The acronym stands for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer/Questioning, with the ‘+’ representing many other sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions (such as Intersex, Asexual, and Two-Spirit). Take time to learn about terms like ‘pansexual,’ referring to attraction regardless of gender, and ‘bisexual,’ meaning attraction to both the same and different genders. For instance, the website “GLAAD’s Tips for Allies of Transgender People” is a fantastic resource to begin with. It provides clear and concise explanations of many of these terms. Read full Post

“I love watching you live a life that's true to you, a life that fulfills you, the life that's 100% you.” "Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." — Harvey Fierstein. Trivia: Harvey Fierstein is an actor and playwright known for advocating for LGBTQ+ rights.

VOGUE USA : SHORT DOCUMENTARY : THIS GIRL'S LIFE: ON GROWING

Kai Shappley is an advocate, an aspiring author, and a Dolly Parton–adoring actor; she is also an 11-year-old in the eye of a political storm. Released on 06/06/2022

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Kai's Birthday is December 27th

Count down the days with us to to wish her a very Happy 14th Birthday this year. Send your love to Kai.

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What People Are Saying

What people are saying about the this beautiful book "JOY, TO THE WORLD" written by Kai Shappley & Lisa Bunker.

This is an inspiring story about Joy, of course, but really about the power of being your true authentic self, and the beauty that lies within fighting for yourself and for others. I would encourage every kid and their parents to dive into this beautiful book.

Megan Rapinoe
Athlete Activist

"At a time when media and society focus sharply on dividing us, this story reminds us of a universal truth: we are all more alike than we are different. “Joy, to the World” is a page-turner for audiences of all ages and is sure to inspire every reader to fight for their own rights and the rights of their friends".

Chris Mosier
Trailblazing Transgender Athlete

"It’s said that “readers are leaders,” but we must remember that writers are as well. Kai and Lisa are leading us all to love more as we listen and learn to the voices and lived experiences of trans students. May we all learn to be ourselves, tell our stories, and fight for others. Read this book, y’all!"

Jed Dearybury
Educator, Author, Illustrator

“Both heart warming and heart wrenching, this book truly captures a glimpse into the powers of Ms Kai Shappley. If the Dolly Parton references didn’t hook you, this story of Joy will. A love letter to all who choose to read it, I am excited to share this book with the world at large!”

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Canadian actress

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PRESS AND MORE

Read articles about Kai and what she has been up to lately. Learn about what is going on in this world of being part of the Trans and LGBTQ community and more.

Kai Shappley Jan 12 2023
Connecticut Voice-Profiles in Courage – The Shappley Family

At five years old, a typical age for learning ABCs and imaginative play, Kai Shappley of Texas confronted severe political challenges, emerging as an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, often derogatorily referred to as "the alphabet people." Starting kindergarten as her authentic self, Kai began her advocacy journey, standing up for herself and others who courageously live their true lives.

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DEVAN DIA June 30, 2022
Journey of Identity: The Experience of a Young Transgender Girl in Texas

Editor’s note: Amid a charged national conversation about transgender rights, the question of how best to love, support, and care for trans-identifying young Americans has become a source of fervent debate. In recent months, as a wave of legislation and orders has emerged from conservative statehouses designed to block gender-­affirming medical treatment for young people, Vogue....

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Kai Shappleyr Jan 12 2023
Kai is the youngest nominee for Teen Vogue 21 under 21!

When Kai Shappley entered kindergarten, her home state of Texas was attempting to ban trans youth from using the bathroom that corresponds with their gender identity. She started puberty just when the state tried to ban trans kids from accessing gender affirming care. Since she came out as trans, Kai says she has had no choice but to be an activist.

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